https://ohholyjesus.org/videos/watch/73508254-1e9c-4064-8edd-0a19243b6fce In this message from City of Destiny, Pastor Paula White-Cain delves into Proverbs 23:7, "as he thinketh in his heart, so is he," and discusses how deeply-held beliefs shape our lives, often without our realizing it. She shares powerful insights on renewing the mind by focusing on godly values and the healing that comes from safe, truth-filled relationships. Pastor Paula encourages us to discern true character over charisma, find safe spaces to confess, and cultivate relationships marked by grace, truth, and presence. Learn how to identify unsafe people and nurture relationships that support godly growth. Key Points: • Belief Shaping: Our beliefs, often shaped by past events, may not reflect the truth. • Renewing the Mind: Focus on godly values and confess faults for true transformation. • Power of Confession: Confessing openly, even small lapses, brings healing. • Safe Relationships: Look for grace, presence, and truth in relationships. • Character Over Charisma: Discern safe people who support growth, not those who exploit. Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction 02:30 - Renewing the Mind and Excavating Faulty Beliefs 05:30 - Offering Yourself to God 08:00 - Confessing Faults and Seeking Change 10:30 - Overcoming Secrets for Healing 15:04 - Understanding Sin and Faults 17:16 - Finding Safe Spaces for Healing 20:48 - Identifying Safe Relationships 24:09 - Accountability and Relationships 27:01 - Avoiding Abusive Relationships 30:22 - Breaking Harmful Relationship Patterns 38:58 - Grace and Acceptance 42:53 - The Transformative Power of Love 43:58 - Truth in Relationships 47:09 - Discernment and Character 51:14 - Recognizing Safe Relationships 57:05 - God's Perspective on Character 58:29 - Learning Safe Boundaries 1:02:20 - Recognizing Unsafe People 1:07:10 - The Role of Critics 1:08:53 - Irresponsible People and Delayed Gratification Download the Paula White Ministries mobile app now and get access to Pastor Paula's teachings for free! Download link: https://subsplash.com/paulawhiteministries/app For more information about Paula White Ministries please visit paulawhite.org #RenewYourMind #GodlyRelationships #SafeSpaces #CharacterOverCharisma #HealingThroughTruth Sun, 05 Apr 2026 18:13:21 GMT https://validator.w3.org/feed/docs/rss2.html PeerTube - https://ohholyjesus.org https://ohholyjesus.org/lazy-static/avatars/9b83c8e0-d493-4d6c-b682-38b99cbed7ef.png https://ohholyjesus.org/videos/watch/73508254-1e9c-4064-8edd-0a19243b6fce All rights reserved, unless otherwise specified in the terms specified at https://ohholyjesus.org/about and potential licenses granted by each content's rightholder.